David Gray-Hammond

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When the Light Flickers: Grieving a Fading Special Interest

On The Existential Uncertainty Of Shifting Passions

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David Gray-Hammond
Oct 17, 2025
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There’s a particular ache that comes when a special interest begins to fade. It isn’t the clean sadness of a finished story or the satisfying end of a chapter, it’s something murkier, almost existential. A kind of quiet grief that seeps into the spaces where fascination once lived.

For many Autistic people, special interests aren’t hobbies in the way soc…

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